2 Unfortunately, there seems to be a tendency among us to steer towards the negative. I am sure you find yourself thinking negative thoughts at certain times of the day. Are you truly aware of just how damaging these thoughts are to your life? Negativity is a state of mind which, when embraced, gradually strips away your self-confidence and erodes your self-esteem.
3 The only real alternative to negative thinking is positive thinking. Keeping an open mind about situations tends to leave you in a sort of no-man’s land where it is all too easy to get sucked back into negative mindset. Now, by positive thinking, I do not mean magical thinking where you believe everything processes. I do not mean that you hold on to the unrealistic view that regardless of your actions, or lack of action, you will reach your goal. Your choices and actions are an integral part of any goal-achievement programme or plan. I am talking about positive mental attitude!
4 You must begin to look for the positive in every situation. The old adage ‘every cloud has a silver lining’ should become your motto. Do you know that some of the most successful people on the planet hold the same belief that ‘everything happens for a reason’?
5 Please be aware that wherever you are in life, no matter how good or how bad you think it is, you exactly where you are supposed to be. Let me illustrate this concept for you.
6 On the morning of 9/11, a terrible tragedy occurred whereby many innocent people needlessly lost their lives. However, there were those who escaped the terror that was experienced by others. Do you know that one woman soiled her work clothes with food and had to remain at home longer went off! There was one person who could not get a taxi and another person’s car would not start. Now, normally, these incidents would make you feel annoyed, irritated, or angry that day?
7 If you hold a vision of where you want to be in life and take small steps towards it every day, then you should know that every day is bringing you closer to your dream. And, if you are getting closer to your dream, then you are exactly where you are meant to be in particular moment, doing exactly what you are meant to be doing, with the exact people you should be doing it with.
8 If your current situation is in any way distasteful to you, take heart. Keep in mind that this is just a stage, a stepping-stone, from where you are to where you are going to be. Here are some key tips to follow to eliminate self-doubt and achieve your goals:
• Count your blessings. Be grateful for what you already have in your life. Practise gratitude and never moan or complain about where you currently are!
• Decide what you want to be, do or have and make it a goal. Make it an affirmation of fact! In other words, state your intention as though it were already an established reality. Read this statement to yourself every morning and every night.
• Visualise your ideal scene. Picture yourself already in possession of your goal. Make it real and see it through your own eyes! Create strong emotion with the picture – this is vitally important!
• Look for the positive in every situation, circumstance and person. By focusing on what is good, you will attract more positives into your life.
If you follow the advice outlined in this article, you will begin to eliminate all your self-doubts and gradually see the life of your dreams unfold before your very eyes.
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